My Protocol Journey

Protocol
In bdsm the way that hiearchy is shown and maintained.

Starting out last year with creating protocols for the two submissives it was a matter of thinking, implementing and cobbling together things.

I didn't create high protocols because I wasn't expecting to be at community events with the two I had for a while. That way they could become comfortable with the protocols that I have given them.

The protocols established their position in the dynamic. Besides maintaining low protocol to be accustomed to things it was there for reasons of safety, accountability and situational.

My protocol examples:

Documenting your movement to me. Meaning, letting me know when you are leaving to go somewhere and when you arrive and where.  This is a matter of safety and attention to scheduling and things that need to be done.  There was some backlash from this from the previous submissive but that merely reinforced my requirement for it.

Eating and exercising protocols:

These are in place to maintain nutritional and physical balance for health. I want them to make sure they are eating properly and maintaining a proper diet. The exercising is to promote a healthy body.

Communication:

Put in place to communicate with me fully and properly. To speak after asking to speak.  To not hold back things from me. Here is where things grow, are explored and addressed.

Service:

Those things I require you to do. From the housekeeping to when I ask you to bake me some cookies and send them to me. Tasks and needs that I make known will be followed. This is where you are my service whore. That doesn't mean sex. Service is honoring our dynamic and you as my submissive.

These three things are a few examples.

My protocols have been seen as difficult. But that is just because of their dominant personalities in their vanilla life. But it is a change in their lives and that is not an easy thing. Change is not easy. Especially for those that are use to calling the shots and getting their way. That is why I don't deal with bratty females.

Well...
Just a little insight to protocols and my journey in it. Next year there will be more protocols I am sure since you have to grow and develop.

Until then

Obey the Order of My Chaos