Everything seems to be going on lately.
About a week and a half ago the volvo broke down on my way back from ATL. After a weekend with babycakes and time with little one on my way back to the QC. Did stay at the only Hampton Inn and suites that I have ever seen on the property of a winery. Nice hotel. Will have to go back there and check out the winery maybe for anniversary. But the engine has to be replaced now after a clusterfuck of dealing with a towing company and a repair shop since I had to leave the car down there.
My Ru lost her 2nd cousin in as many months in Boston. Plus one of her girlfriends she found out died as well. So, I feel for her and all that she is going through.
Today my cigar buddy from the shop calls to tell me his wife died yesterday. I am stunned still about hearing this. I understand and know some of the feelings he is going through since I lost Chocolate Doll.
My heart goes out to my people.
I have been seeing posts about issues going on in the community as well. But I have no knowledge about any of it because I stay in my cave, to myself. But the human condition means there will always be something. Definitely not a cake walk.
Been laughing at reading the petty, whining bitching going on from females about their positions and being relieved of the relationships and dynamics that they really didn't want or make an effort to be a part of.
Otherwise...
Just being Myself and doing Me. Getting ready for anniversaries and quality times coming up thankfully. Overdue for some more adventures and memories made. It is amazing when people actually want to live and do things.
The house in bama is sold. Just have to go down and get the paperwork done and that will be gone thank goodness.
Missing going to conferences and enjoying the energy there. Spanksgiving would be coming up next soon. But probably won't be able to do any of that until next year still. At least we had SPLF early this year as the last conference attended.
With all the difficult and rough times there are still the good things going on. Dealing with the parental unit with his health, issues, houses and all. Work and the ignorance of people, government and everything keeps things a fucking mess.
But it is refreshing to have Ru and My girls to interact with as well as be supported. Even though it is difficult to support me since I tend to just do things Myself. But talking to Ru has definitely been the appreciated staple all these years. Through marriage, the pseudo relationshipsand dynamics as well as relationshps and dynamics. Now, adding to that is the energy and discussions with sunshine as well as the interactions with the girls. As I enjoy the connection with miko to see how and where things go.
These are unique times
Till the next time
