Sunday, August 16, 2015

The Answer to Expectations

I got the question I get at times.

What do you expect?  (when it comes to the humans)

I expect NOTHING! I expect everyone to do what is in their best interest and that is it. What makes them happy, satisfied or comfortable.

I was met with that is so negative and fatalistic.

Ummm, but it is true. The nature of humans dictates that to happen.

A male is interested in a female. He makes an attempt to show interest and get to know the female. She perceives it as he is just trying to fuck her and waste her time. So that is her expectation of him. While he expects her to be standoffish and playing games. Their expectations may be wrong but they are in their own best interests.

Expectations, dreaming and planning can lead to disaster of the utmost proportions if you let it. The key is to stay centered in reality. Temper all the what if's with what is happening currently.

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