The Aspect of Ownership

This has been the chapter I am on currently. And it has been in discussions lately as well.

I know for me it is not something I have taken lightly. Thanks to meeting Sirs that have shown and explained the value and importance in this. Hell, it is the reason why I paid attention, studied and opened up the learning to betterment.

Ownership is important to me because the point is to take care of my s types. To provide the things that they need and to lead. The pride and feeling of saying and the recognition of "she is mine."  That makes me smile and strive to be better. There is nothing like that feeling of ownership.

This is not recognized by society at large. But it is the application of taking care of your submissive. Making sure that they are healthy, moving forward positively and achieving the goals that are set to the betterment. Through attending conferences and events I have seen the recognition of Doms and their subs. The respect, rituals and service of the good dynamics I have seen are inspirational. You can see it with each interaction. The respect from Dom to Dom, Sub to Dom and the relationships between each. The outline that says this is mine and respect is in order and necessary.

It doesn't mean that the sub does not express themselves. I prefer my sub to express herself and I attend to her input and needs. She expresses so that things can be better tailored and the dynamic grow correctly. The protocols and rituals held in place to strengthen everything.

As a Dom it is my purpose to decide the best for my subs. For their service and realization that they are subject to what I decide for them.

I have been able to witness the need from the sub's point of view as well. The need for ownership that can give purpose and comfort. Part of that strengthening in the dynamic bond.

The key is applying the proper things to the sub that will allow her to understand, feel and accept her ownership. And that is not a simple task at all times or for all. But if it was simple more people would do it.

I am glad that I am learning and applying. Just have to finish the equation and complete


Keep your head up and do what you can to live for today and tomorrow.


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