Nor am I nostradomus.
I am simply me. The man and alien. That is all that I will be.
As I have seen, many times females and subs have been looking for someone to solve everything for them or take it all away. I can't do those things. No one can do those things.
What I can and do is make the best effort and decisions possible for you to grow and achieve goals. This does not mean that mistakes won't be made. It means that it is a process and all involved are responsible in making it work.
As a man, I do walk to the beat of my own drum. I think, act and say things according to me, myself and I. I don't think in a equal, fair or other people's mindset. Many have an issue with this. And that is fine.
I don't deal with, date or have an interest in males. So when the phrase, "can't you see a female's point of view comes up," I will merely look at you sideways. I am not a female and nor do I think like one.
In all of this fairness, equality and make me change mentality it seems that the picture is not being seen. You are not looking for a clone, a cog or the same ole thing in who you have a dynamic or relationship with. You are looking for something unique. Well, so am I.
Nothing is completely the same. And there are plenty of things that are similar. Like codes, rules and so forth. But in D/s as with relationships you have to tailor make things to what is going on with and for your situation.
As a Man:
I have always stood out as being my own person. My ways may not be yours. But if you want to understand them then address that with me. If not, then no worries. I won't and don't apologize for being myself. My changes are my own.
My taste in females is very unique and picky. Unlike the thought process many females use for men. I am not fucking everything that has a pussy and nor do I want to know everything with a pussy. You can be a tool for sex, just another female or something more. That just depends on how you approach me, your intentions and the results.
As a Dominant:
I am strict, commanding and mean. That is tempered with understanding, application and growth. I may only have a few years under my belt but I continue learning and growing. But the core principles will remain the same.
I strive for those with me to become better than when we met. To be able to be more critical in thinking, actions and living. For them to embrace themselves, life and their submission in ways that they can explore and enjoy fully.
There is no template. Let me say it again. THERE IS NO TEMPLATE! For being a Dominant or submissive and slave. What works for one will not work for anyone else. What works for most may not work for the one. lol and I know this very, very well.
In Conclusion:
There is already a huge communication gap between men and females. Add to that the gap between Dominants and submissives and the deficit is already rather large. So with that said, make every effort possible to understand, grow and achieve what you seek.
My Dominance is defined by me. The way I lead and teach. Through the things that I see, address and task to do. Those things are what show why I am a Dominant. This isn't about some star status. It is about the real life example of the D/s dynamic.
As a man I love titties and ass with curves and thick treats. Those women that are sexy and open minded enough to be outside the box that society has set aside for them to be in. That intelligent, super freak that is nerdy, finds things funny and is a super freak.
As a Dominant the quest is for the best D/s or play possible. The elation of the experiences. The knowledge of where we came from and are going. The memories that have been shared. An understand and application of TPE completely.
With that said, I hope you have had a good Memorial Day Weekend.
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