People change. Whether it is good or bad tends to be a matter of view and perspective. And especially their mental ability.
So when you establish relationships and they change drastically. The red flags, bells and whistles go off. That is if you have known them or at least thought you knew them for a while. At times the transition is obvious and other times it is totally chaotic and unforseen until it drops like an anvil on top of you.
Depending on the importance of relationships for you will be your response. You show concern and address it with them. Ask them what has changed. Reinforce that you are with them.
The hard part as a concerned member of a relationship is hoping they come to terms and grasp what is going on with them. Because you can slap them in the face with what is seen and going on. But free will is something else!
When you no longer present a presence. What can you expect those that have been in a relationship with you to do?
Looking at the score cards. These sub par episodes are not what the doctor ordered.
Let the hounds loose.
Let them receive what they seek.
The void
The emptiness
The detachment
Prevalence!!!
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