A weekend in the A

I went to handle some business and had a chance to see the person I date while she was on vacation. It definitely ended up a pivotal weekend in my thought processing and actions.

The heat of course was not my friend. The hotel staff was el hood and inefficient.  But made it through some how.

I hadn't seen the person I dated in a year, so it was way over due. Things were not the same as they use to be and I had no thoughts that they would be. Time changes things.

I learned about titles and roles in reference to being with me fully this weekend. Titles, roles and classifications hold little to no weight anymore.  I realized it was something that I held on to unfortunately and that was silly. The only thing is to take each moment for what it is at that moment and nothing else.

I had a chance to release some of my raging sadist. Meaning more than I would normally. I had a first in water sports. And there were some frank discussions and information over the weekend.

I dealt with ego in giving whoever you are with support to do their thing. Even when males and their egos and messy, fucked up lives do what they visit can to create mess and drama. What do I mean?

I mean so called doms trying to sneak diss, backdoor and be conniving.  It is enough that males do that in vanilla life but in the lifestyle it is an extra level of stupidity. But here it was. After I leave here they come trying their bullshit. Just because you want to fuck, play with and be with females thst are mine or are with me doesn't give you permission to violate who I am dating or my two submissives. But this indidual and some others have recently tested my patience in this. So now I don't need or want anyone that is not approved bothering the one I date or my subs. Kudos to you jack ass!

This weekend ooened my eyes further to why I do things my way and why there are further adjustments and changes.

So after a discussion with my date and two subs the next phase has been implemented.

Welcome to the Terrordome!!!