Living It Instead of Playing It

My journey in bdsm has been one of profound experiences and accounting.

I am still new. I will continue to learn. To look for a mentor and everything.

As it was said on the conference call tonight by Kore. The aspects of this lifestyle is not all that sexy when you are doing the relationship things. Not just the beat me and make me feel good episodes.

It is important to have that connection and binding that you need outside of playing with someone. But as it has been said what do you do with each other when there is no play. It is about being able to talk and do things that are basically considered vanilla.

My journey with Lil Red has been one filled with uniqueness an weirdness. But it has been a journey in fundamentals and a dynamic that holds a serious weight between us.  We talk and are able to function in and out of the lifestyle.  Defining being a Dom and a sub together on a journey into mystery.

This relationship and hierarchy is not easy. It isn't a simple turn the corner and be there. It is about the building of trust and communicating. The connection that is established and grows. Hell, I can tell you in this short amount of time I have learned from leaps and bounds on things. And I am still in the very first steps of this.

There were the question of whether Lil Red was the right one.  How did I know and understand that she was the right one. And my answer was and is: Because I evaluated, analyzed and got to know her. It comes from teh times where we have agreed, disagreed and shown who we truly are. But the beginning was that vibe and connection that was undeniable to me.

Here we are in the here and now.

Everything is not krispy kreme sweet with Lil Red and I. Our journey is not complete or even fully defined. But it is what it is and where it needs to be.

This lifestyle. This choice. Is not for the faint of heart. Or even for those that can do it if it is easy. It is overcoming, the overwhelming things that won't come easy or make sense.

Minus the glamour and glitz. I enjoy Lil Red and the things that we do and share. Add to that the D/s and the destiny that I have planned. Then things are just Perfect!

The Journey...

Mr Wolf and Lil Red

I am ready, willing and committed.
Be Prepared.