Monday, February 23, 2015

The Act of Training

I have been asked about my training for a sub and a slave. My answer is one of fluidity. Tailor made to me and the person that I am training. So it is not a regimented, plug and play factor. For me training is a matter of building upon the trainee. The aspects that they have and making them better in order to fit with me.

For my submissive:
I train for them to have respect for me and other D/M's. To be of service to me and when around others to respect and be of service.  I honestly don't need positioning and posturing from my submissive. I am looking at things to see if there are other things that fit that I may want to train her in. But I haven't found that yet.

I find the real training in finding ways to push and move towards established goals. Because it can be hard and hard fought. Knowing when to push and when to suggest is a serious art form.

For my slave:
Training is more vast due to the nature of them. Making sure to schedule meals, health exams and more regularly. Teaching them aspects of focusing to achieve goals. A lot more in depth than the submissive. Still I don't need to positioning or Gorean movements. Just not my cup of tea.

In analysis I realize my aspect of training is minute for the most part. New to the aspect I will continue learning. And maybe there are other things I will need to train and incorporate. Right now I haven't come across them yet. But the mind and eyes are open as I continue reading and observing.

My art of training being established and prepared for evolution.

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