All relationships, no matter the dynamic are formulas that you have to choose what you plug in to it. The big part is there is never an actual solution so it is a science, math and physics geeks dream basically. There are no constants or necessary reliabilities. Just the application for the moment and what myriad of outcomes will appear from that formula for the next moment.
As I was asked how do you make poly work? Just like you have to make a monogamous relation work. You actually have to have someone that wants a relation and is willing to make the effort to make it work. Terms have to be met or you just don't give a fuck and then nothing matters anyway.
I have enjoyed poly relations until other individuals choose to change things and disconnect the relation. I have loved, cared for, been there for and more with individuals. There is also the converse reality as well. It can be used to maintain complete disconnection and distance from others. Where there is an established ceiling that is capped so there is no room for movement beyond that.
I can and do both of the afore mentioned situations. If you want to be situaltional then I will show you interest when you show some or we spend some type of interaction together. After that I will barely remember. In the other way we can be fully invested in each other and do our thing. You only can make the most out of what is put in.
Deconstructed Formulaic Relationship
Chalk and eraser in
hand
Upon the blackboard
We call a
Relationship
I guarantee you
That you will be
perplexed
The answers will
never be met
And the outcomes will
be in a
Constant state of
flux
Like beginning the
periodic table
Like a game of chess
The only importance
is placement
Whoever is winning
Changes the answers
to the tests
E=mc2d
Wait a minute that is
unfair
We cannot have
constants
In a relationship
Misapplication of
Pythagorean Theorem
Nothing is meeting or
joined
Especially not the
heart and mind
Even the physics
Of the physical
moments
Leave the equation
Unsolved
Neither x, y nor z
has been solved
Even Pi is not
allowed
Fundamentally we have
broken the answer
1+1=2
1+1+1=3
And there is where
that damn Pi
Should be
Oh well
Broken formulas
Mathematical fuckery
In the end
There is only
Improbable
Impossibilities
From the
chocolatezeus collection 3/6/16 ©
So I will tell you this. If you don't know what you want. Need to be secretive and cower in your own soul. While role playing that you want a relationship or more. Just stop! And play only with those that are happily in your same boat.
It is not that dating, relations, even marriage cannot be solved. It is the factor of do you want things solved or do you want to stand in your own way so you can feel that false since of safe.
Relationships work. I enjoy watching and reading the interaction in D/s, M/s and vanilla relations. When they are working well and they are into each other even if they are apart or don't spend a lot of time together. When they can argue and disagree and that same energy doesn't change. That is what a relationship is made of. When through the good, bad, silent and disconnected moments you can smack her on the ass and she turns and looks at you to say, "yeah, I know. miss you too."
Relationships work. I enjoy watching and reading the interaction in D/s, M/s and vanilla relations. When they are working well and they are into each other even if they are apart or don't spend a lot of time together. When they can argue and disagree and that same energy doesn't change. That is what a relationship is made of. When through the good, bad, silent and disconnected moments you can smack her on the ass and she turns and looks at you to say, "yeah, I know. miss you too."
Be true and don't be scared to step our of your comfort zone and live. Unless like me no one will ever be safe if you do.
lmao
Get the fuck out of here and enjoy this weather. As Sargent Slaughter would say, "And that's an order!"
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