It is a common question and one that is asked a number of times.
For me it is someone that chooses to come under service, direction and leadership of another person. She can be the ruler of half the planet, a ceo or professor with 4 noebel prizes. When all of that is said and done she is the charge of her Dominant.
This is not something that is coerced or forced upon them. I personally question the use of the word submission when they want to be forced into doing it basically. This is supposed to be of free will and action.
It can be a hard or impossible ability for people. Because it requires trust, commitment and no longer only getting your way. An alignment of wills that basically females have been taught against doing in life from their conception.
Nor is submission something easy or immediate for most. It takes time, effort, commitment and growth.
It has taken my little one over a year to become mostly aligned because of life and the things that she was use to and how she is and all. It took understanding and seeing the goals that were set along with the goals that were achieved. And of course there is still a lot of work to do on the journey. But with effort, commitment and attentiveness we will keep right on moving.
Oh yeah, there have been the pitfalls. The fraudulent submissive, the topping from the bottom submissive as well as the burger king submissive (have it my way.) They have shown that I have to be vigilant against things like them trying to manipulate you to get their way or do things some other so called doms way and everything else.
So being a submissive to me is many things. Most are not the suck, fuck and play kind (even though I love those.) There are things like organizing files. Taking dictation and a lot of dicktation as well. Doing research for me. Trip planning and shopping. There are so many things that happen and will be in the submissive's domain of service. But most importantly is honor, duty, integrity to this house, our dynamic.
So there is my little answer for those that haven't asked me yet out of those that have. Or those that have and just want to verify.
Tuesday, May 30, 2017
Monday, May 29, 2017
Mad Max in the Thunderdome...week in revue
So it has been hot here at the beach. The northerners are down here and creating more accidents and chaos than the ones that already moved here. So yes, I have needed to just get in an interceptor and just ride around shooting and blowing up everything and everyone.
The week?
Well, the week has been interesting to say the least.
Discussions about why Dominants and Masters should let their submissives and slaves have access to their journals. Yeah, that would cave their little heads in reading that stuff. lol
The inability for submissives and slaves to be able to transition and process the differences from their adventures as the career female in their lives and everything to being a submissive or slave in a dynamic. That make me submit to you and everything were on the table again.
The evidence of relevance and importance was shown and put on full display. Almost like more episodes of the issues with the old teen dream thing came out.
Work was something else. Got a chick that is aloof along with a bunch of other misfits. lol
The horny sadist is way out of control! I am looking at chicks i wouldn't look at normally and thinking about fucking and beating them. smh
I had to spend time out in the country since my cousin was down as usual from Mass. I had plenty to eat and drink. I need to keep my alcohol level up you know!
That comfort need thing was evaluated, understood and put into it's vault.
Really ready to hit the skies here shortly and be on the move. It is past time with everything else that has been going on. Need something, so went back to my old way.
I definitely ate and drank well. And I am going to keep that going.
little one has been dealing with things so supporting her through her 1st dom dying and so many other things. As I told some folk this is the non glamorous and fun stuff but it is what has to and should be done. Take care of your charge.
Dating? lol yeah. There will be more changes in this area. But definitely have a lot of work to do.
And it is about time for two more tattoo's. Chocolate Doll and a collaring or dedication.
Half the year is gone and I am ready to get it over with and get a move on.
As Evil parts I will leave these right here...
I love you
Miss you
Need you
...ball is in your court
Back to chaos and destruction
The week?
Well, the week has been interesting to say the least.
Discussions about why Dominants and Masters should let their submissives and slaves have access to their journals. Yeah, that would cave their little heads in reading that stuff. lol
The inability for submissives and slaves to be able to transition and process the differences from their adventures as the career female in their lives and everything to being a submissive or slave in a dynamic. That make me submit to you and everything were on the table again.
The evidence of relevance and importance was shown and put on full display. Almost like more episodes of the issues with the old teen dream thing came out.
Work was something else. Got a chick that is aloof along with a bunch of other misfits. lol
The horny sadist is way out of control! I am looking at chicks i wouldn't look at normally and thinking about fucking and beating them. smh
I had to spend time out in the country since my cousin was down as usual from Mass. I had plenty to eat and drink. I need to keep my alcohol level up you know!
That comfort need thing was evaluated, understood and put into it's vault.
Really ready to hit the skies here shortly and be on the move. It is past time with everything else that has been going on. Need something, so went back to my old way.
I definitely ate and drank well. And I am going to keep that going.
little one has been dealing with things so supporting her through her 1st dom dying and so many other things. As I told some folk this is the non glamorous and fun stuff but it is what has to and should be done. Take care of your charge.
Dating? lol yeah. There will be more changes in this area. But definitely have a lot of work to do.
And it is about time for two more tattoo's. Chocolate Doll and a collaring or dedication.
Half the year is gone and I am ready to get it over with and get a move on.
As Evil parts I will leave these right here...
I love you
Miss you
Need you
...ball is in your court
Back to chaos and destruction
Relation poetry: Murder in the Relationship Degree
Murder in the Relationship Degree
Wait
Wait
Your upset?
Even though you won’t
Open your mouth or
heart
And express yourself
Oh
You do express
something
Merely the bad and
the ugly
I guess the good
escapes your memory
Cue the Clint
Eastwood
Music theme
It is hard to believe
That in this day and
age
Alleged relationship
thing
That there couldn’t
be
Wouldn’t be
And apparently for
you and others
Shouldn’t be
This ability to
Converse
Enjoy and live
Actually have this
Relationship type
Thing
Instead let’s cheer
on
The
Pouting
Angry and snarling
Long distance center
learning
That is prevalent
And so relevant to
you
As the existence of
we
You keep
Murdering
From the
chocolatezeus collection 5/29/17 ©
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