Choices and Techniques...My Dominant Mindset

Decisions have to be made as a Dom or even man in the vanilla world. I have always made those decisions regardless.

In my dating experience I have always been picky. Seeking and requiring the females that I was interested in be unique, dynamic and appealing to me. That means the females are a thin line between ideal and improbable. I like them weird and to stand out from the pack. They keep me interested.

So since I am picky it can be seen as an issue because I am not into everyone. Why yes I am a man and I think with more than just my dick! I like a woman over a female. One with intelligence, wit, sex appeal and super freaky.

But most of all it is about that connect. That vibe that I get between us. That is what has me move forward prominently and seek what I want. Throw caution to the wind and take a chance for the best of the best.

It is that caring, understanding and given submission that is only characteristic to our dynamic that holds meaning to me. The things that she can think and understand while knowing that her guidance, existence and security are the things that will be kept and maintained. Even in those moments where I am not doing things properly. She looks out for me. She holds that realm of oddity which is a foundation of our dynamic being who we are exclusively. Growing through each experience and interaction. Journeying down our path gaining strength.

See...
I found exactly what fits. What was wanted. A work in progress. A defined solution sitting in front of me. And I have learned and evolved so that this will be something prominent. But I still won't act like I have even reached the 1/4th way in this. I have somehow worked with patience and understanding through all of this. (miraculous to say the least) Honing talents, techniques, applications and skills regularly on this. Because this dynamic is not easy as the rest. When you deal with the eccentric it will definitely put your fortitude and resolve to the test.

I am happy with what I have. Each moment of confused misunderstanding and mental lament yields just how special and relevant that this relation is. Because there have been moments where I have done more than just scratch my head. lol

In closing I say this. I don't use others complete techniques and philosophies to make my dynamic. I know and have refined what it is that I seek and where things will lead to. Each Dom and Master have their own methods. Each with things that make their dynamic completely unique to them. And that is the way it is supposed to be. Tailor made to each specific family.

Whether single or poly. The same intesity and requirements will remain for me. Established dynamic with trust and applicable journey to the goal seen.

With that said

*you lack of faith is disturbing* in my Darth Vader voice

Current Mood Music

Spoken Word: Lost In Vapor Trails

Lost In Vapor Trails

I look to the sky

Where dark now pushes light

I see your smile

Bright

As the northern lights

The gleam

Resides

I slowly wave

Mind and soul

Pitted and decayed

Wondering

Which efflux

Is your path

To fun and adventure

Longing

Wishing

I was there

To share in

You and the experience

I stand

Beholden

Sad

Just glad

That you have this chance

To enjoy and be able to

Live and experience

Your smile

Now worldly

From the chocolatezeus collection  7/8/15  ©