Poetry Moment: The Connect

The Connect

Aaron Hall reminding me

thinking of Me and you

How I want to give it to you real nasty

be my baby

light my day sunshine

Thoughts of those lips

deep passionate kisses

their warmth wrapped around me

give me that delight

from the first moments

when my eyes were open wide

touched by your eye candy delights

I just wanted to get to know you

let me show you what you been feeling and thinking

just open up for me

let us both delve nice and deep

into each others tumultous seas

from that beginning

never would have thought where it would lead

you know what I want

you know what I need

give it to me

we already entered into each other’s

mentality

looks that turned into intrigue

discussions that wet neurons

carnal desires released

all I asked you to do

was just be

be yourself

be as freaky as you want to be

release and be free

building block upon block

connect from the beginning

now intesified in strength

I am about that connect

the connecction that sparked from the beginning

the sparks now that burn like solar flares

let us burn eternity

you and me

connected

the way the connect always should be

the connection

the only important thing

from the chocolatezeus collection 2/12/20 (c)

To Just Be aka When I Am in the Mood relations

I have heard, witnessed and discussed a phrase that I females have been using for a number of years with it comes to relationships and trying to be involved with them.  That phrase is...

Let's just be and let things happen naturally. (or similar phrases with the same effect)

Honestly this seems like some passive attempt to be standoffish but still get what they want on the intermittent schedule that they want.

What is the point of this? Is this situational relationship lite or something?

I see it as this defense system employed to give a buffer so they can feel protected but like they are committed to something they don't have to really be a part of and is disposable.

People get hurt in this thing called life through relationships, dating and much more. And the maturity just doesn't reach part of the population to learn from what happened, apply realizations and still be productively involved with others.

There have been encounters in the past where the female says this and yet still claims we are in a relationship. But communication, attention and involvement are fleeting or nonexistence. And they are happy with this.

Through my experience I have come to understand this choice more and take it as it is. Just someone that wants the facsimile of a relation based on when, where and how they feel like being bothered. So three years ago when the light bulb went off I took it all in stride and applied the fix. I gave them what they wanted. Something that resembled a relation based on their interest after I asked if they were going to work on the relationship.  Giving them what they want doesn't seem to go over well. It seems to bring out the petty, vindictive, femme nazi side of them since you decide to facilitate the type of relation that they want.

It is perfectly acceptable to not want a or be in any form of relation or relationship. By all means I applaud those that understand, know and actively just do not get involved in anything relation wise. Like they use to say, just don't fake the funk!

Be honest
Be direct
With yourself and everyone else

Go ahead and just

Be