Chocolatezeus's Johari Window
The Johari Window was invented by Joseph Luft and Harrington Ingham in the 1950s as a model for mapping personality awareness. By describing yourself from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of overlap and difference can be built up.
You can get your own Johari Window, or contribute to Chocolatezeus's.
KnowntoSelf
NotKnowntoSelf
Known to Others
Arena
Blind Spot
Not Known to Others
Façadeadaptableintelligentknowledgeablelovingproud
Unknown
able accepting bold brave calm caring cheerful clever complex confident dependable dignified energetic extroverted friendly giving happy helpful idealistic independent ingenious introverted kind logical mature modest nervous observant organised patient powerful quiet reflective relaxed religious responsive searching self-assertive self-conscious sensible sentimental shy silly spontaneous sympathetic tense trustworthy warm wise witty
Statistics will appear here when other people have assigned adjectives to you.
The Interactive Johari Window was installed and grouted by Kevan, on the 11th of February 2006.Questions? Check the FAQ.If you can take criticism, there's also a darker Nohari Window.
Thursday, March 02, 2006
Music Makes Me Lose Control
"ooohhh!!!"
Thats what you hear
When that song comes on that puts you in gear
making your body groove to the beat
Making you twist and move your feet
Your mind glides
As you let yourself slip and slide
Bopping side to side
On that slow grind
Moving even to the electric slide
So many dances
So much movement music
Keep on playing that Funky music
Mind deep off into it
Music lifting us through it
Drop it like its hot
*or even tepid* LOL
Twerking what you got
Forget the thoughts
Music is all that we are
Our very own guide
Step, step side to side
Dancing and looking fly
Bust out do the matrix
heading back to the old school hits
In the midst of "Re-Running it"
And of course we can't forget
Those classic R & B dance hits
Choreographed to the tip
Hand movements, swaying of the hips
Dip baby, dip
The smiles
The laughter
Music brings us all back together
Somehow forgetting all that we were
Transfixed by the rhytm and beat
Caught up in our body moving with the beats
Dancing so hard
To cater to our fix
DJ keep bringing me these banging ass hits
Thats what you hear
When that song comes on that puts you in gear
making your body groove to the beat
Making you twist and move your feet
Your mind glides
As you let yourself slip and slide
Bopping side to side
On that slow grind
Moving even to the electric slide
So many dances
So much movement music
Keep on playing that Funky music
Mind deep off into it
Music lifting us through it
Drop it like its hot
*or even tepid* LOL
Twerking what you got
Forget the thoughts
Music is all that we are
Our very own guide
Step, step side to side
Dancing and looking fly
Bust out do the matrix
heading back to the old school hits
In the midst of "Re-Running it"
And of course we can't forget
Those classic R & B dance hits
Choreographed to the tip
Hand movements, swaying of the hips
Dip baby, dip
The smiles
The laughter
Music brings us all back together
Somehow forgetting all that we were
Transfixed by the rhytm and beat
Caught up in our body moving with the beats
Dancing so hard
To cater to our fix
DJ keep bringing me these banging ass hits
Something...Yet What?
Feeling the ebb and flow between us
Unspoken emotions
Hidden, stifled affections
We continue on
Fighting something within us
Staying in our safety zones
Singing Biggies's "Give Me One Mo' Chance"
As we continue our anti-path
Against what we feel and know
Continuing our horor show
Like Patton's march to the Rhine
Things have been empressive in this time line
You can seek and find or not find
Yet there is nothing like if we will find
Invasions of the heart and mind
Unsolved
Unresolved
Did we give our last call
Did we say goodbye to all
Or did we need to just evolve
Give into it all
To completely fall
Covered in it all
The flowers I bring
Whether for a funeral
Or wedding ring
Remains to be seen
Take them as you see
Here inside is all you need to see
Inside is what I cleve
Unique bond yes indeed
Fancy and Free
That is where we be
But
The truth lies within me
Lies within you
Tell me...
What do we do?
Unspoken emotions
Hidden, stifled affections
We continue on
Fighting something within us
Staying in our safety zones
Singing Biggies's "Give Me One Mo' Chance"
As we continue our anti-path
Against what we feel and know
Continuing our horor show
Like Patton's march to the Rhine
Things have been empressive in this time line
You can seek and find or not find
Yet there is nothing like if we will find
Invasions of the heart and mind
Unsolved
Unresolved
Did we give our last call
Did we say goodbye to all
Or did we need to just evolve
Give into it all
To completely fall
Covered in it all
The flowers I bring
Whether for a funeral
Or wedding ring
Remains to be seen
Take them as you see
Here inside is all you need to see
Inside is what I cleve
Unique bond yes indeed
Fancy and Free
That is where we be
But
The truth lies within me
Lies within you
Tell me...
What do we do?
Intimate Moment, Mood
The Smile
- A beacon even in the light
Your Presence
- The quiet comfort that holds me securely
The Figure
- What warms my lust and gives me my precious eye candy
Intimate Moments
Intimate Moods
I Love You
- Words giving me unearthly strenght and support
A Kiss
- Precious extention of your soul. Electrifying me through your tantalizing lips
A Simple Touch
- Giving that inner stirring that shakes me to my core
Intimate Moments
Intimate Moods
A Back Rub
- The movement that puts you comfortably into that sleep mode
The Massage
- Your relief after a difficult day
Prepared Dinner
- Welcoming you home to feed your body and soul
Intimate Moments
Intimate Moods
Silent Moments
- The times being near each other soothes us completely without a word
Snuggling
- Closeness that is unrivaled by anything else. A molding of our selves
The Look
- Seeing in those eyes all that I want, need and have to cherish and be blessed
Intimate Moments
Intimate Moods
Tuesday, February 21, 2006
The Imperfect
What you se is not necessarily what you get
My mistakes and regret
Moments I can't forget
A life filled with Turns and Twists
Experience an be graphic
Caught up in life's backflips
Bound by life's gymnastics
Wondering how things will stick
Will goals be reached or missed
Here comes the life of the IMPERFECT
Things could be a huge wreck
Delicate balances upset
Having ot keep emotions and understaings in check
Attemptin to avoid more of life's planned wrecks
Can't say that I have always done the best
Haven't always avoided the mess
Or gave my 110 % to the tests
Many times taking bullets to the chest
Unprepared for what came next
Soul just tired of everything
My victiories seem utterly fleeting
Negative things continue to beat me
Obscuring my vision
Sometimes I can't see
Can't be something I can't be
The past can no longer hold me
Merely help to mold me
Reality is all I see
Perfect
Hell no
Not me
Imperfection
Yeah
That is completely me
Wednesday, February 15, 2006
Toast To Old Skool O.G.
I have to say it was a blessing to have met you
So many things that I had learned from you
Damn man you had a lock down on cool
Those suits and matching hats
That was what the kids would have called a Real Daddy Mack
But your head wasn't all into that
Rolling in the big Expidition
Ladies flocking to the side just for a mere vision
Us laughing at the sight
Knowing that they weren't just right
That they would be dismissed
Because they were not quality chicks
Showing the laws of recieving excellent service
Waitresses flocking to us to be of service
Knowing that you tipped well
Ended all that trifling service
With those tips they were ready to work and earn it
You kept things in check
While Dapperly dressed
Never deviating from the way things were set
Everything came and you quietly handled it
Chicks, tricks and hoes came at you abundantly
Fallling all over you was damn funny
Ready to try and get in your pockets
Hurt like hell when they couldn't unlock it
Damn it was something else when you were gone
Everyone was at a loss
Couldn't believe that you were gone
Just was at the Restaraunt enjoy our porterhouse steaks
Then next day dead in the hospital you laid
The O.G.
Playa
Was gone that day
The city was never the same.
The funeral was filled with honored fame
Everyone knew you and came
You will be missed
Even for the brief time that you were here
There will always be memories
Moments
And comedy club laughter to share
Even though you are no longer here
So many things that I had learned from you
Damn man you had a lock down on cool
Those suits and matching hats
That was what the kids would have called a Real Daddy Mack
But your head wasn't all into that
Rolling in the big Expidition
Ladies flocking to the side just for a mere vision
Us laughing at the sight
Knowing that they weren't just right
That they would be dismissed
Because they were not quality chicks
Showing the laws of recieving excellent service
Waitresses flocking to us to be of service
Knowing that you tipped well
Ended all that trifling service
With those tips they were ready to work and earn it
You kept things in check
While Dapperly dressed
Never deviating from the way things were set
Everything came and you quietly handled it
Chicks, tricks and hoes came at you abundantly
Fallling all over you was damn funny
Ready to try and get in your pockets
Hurt like hell when they couldn't unlock it
Damn it was something else when you were gone
Everyone was at a loss
Couldn't believe that you were gone
Just was at the Restaraunt enjoy our porterhouse steaks
Then next day dead in the hospital you laid
The O.G.
Playa
Was gone that day
The city was never the same.
The funeral was filled with honored fame
Everyone knew you and came
You will be missed
Even for the brief time that you were here
There will always be memories
Moments
And comedy club laughter to share
Even though you are no longer here
Tuesday, February 14, 2006
Lay Here
Come lay on my chest
Lets begin the best bed rest
As you hear the heartbeat thumping in my chest
This is what makes you feel the safest
I enjoy this comfort that you are giving
Releasing my heart and soul from its prison
In love is what we are living
Here we lay remembering
Special memories that we are reliving
Laying there looking into your face
Moved by your sensual grace
Your lips call me for a taste
Kissing you
Melted by our lip to lip embrace
This is the moment that holds me
Comforts me
Gives me the ability to be me
Just your head on my chest baby
Lets begin the best bed rest
As you hear the heartbeat thumping in my chest
This is what makes you feel the safest
I enjoy this comfort that you are giving
Releasing my heart and soul from its prison
In love is what we are living
Here we lay remembering
Special memories that we are reliving
Laying there looking into your face
Moved by your sensual grace
Your lips call me for a taste
Kissing you
Melted by our lip to lip embrace
This is the moment that holds me
Comforts me
Gives me the ability to be me
Just your head on my chest baby
Seeing Red
Seeing Red
Red for the anger of the things that pierced my heart and soul
The vicious attacks and sarcastic cracks
I see Red for that fire ass passion we gave in and out of bed.
Taking each others orgasms to the head.
Moaning, groaning and screaming is all we said.
As orgasmic assasins we perfected our craft.
Seeing Red, remembering that sexy lingerie.
The sight of you making my heart do a double play.
So damn Sexay.
Keeps me wanting you each and every day.
Red Bullseye for those episodes where you walked out.
Leaving our future in doubt.
I hated going that route.
Only to find out none of our relationsh really did count.
Red lipstick making me need to kiss, lick and suck those juicy lips.
Making me smack my lips in anticipation and shit.
Your kisses never missed.
I because stuck on it.
Addicted to it.
Damn!!! I miss that hit.
Do you See?
Can you see what I see?
All this Red permeates me.
Blinding me to see.
Traces of lipstick
Making my heart sick.
Here I bleed profusely
Now can you truly see?
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO ME
Red for the anger of the things that pierced my heart and soul
The vicious attacks and sarcastic cracks
I see Red for that fire ass passion we gave in and out of bed.
Taking each others orgasms to the head.
Moaning, groaning and screaming is all we said.
As orgasmic assasins we perfected our craft.
Seeing Red, remembering that sexy lingerie.
The sight of you making my heart do a double play.
So damn Sexay.
Keeps me wanting you each and every day.
Red Bullseye for those episodes where you walked out.
Leaving our future in doubt.
I hated going that route.
Only to find out none of our relationsh really did count.
Red lipstick making me need to kiss, lick and suck those juicy lips.
Making me smack my lips in anticipation and shit.
Your kisses never missed.
I because stuck on it.
Addicted to it.
Damn!!! I miss that hit.
Do you See?
Can you see what I see?
All this Red permeates me.
Blinding me to see.
Traces of lipstick
Making my heart sick.
Here I bleed profusely
Now can you truly see?
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO ME
My Valentines
Ok I figured I would get a lil bit mushy since it is V-day. So enjoy it while it lasts. LOL
Happy Valentines Day Everyone
My Valentine
It is just another day
As always I miss you already
Each and everyday my love for you stays
This stubborn love unconditionally
My funny valentine
My sexy fine valentine
Just come here be mine
Nothing like you will I ever find
Lord knows that I have tried
Lessons learned time after time
Coming short each and every time
My funny valentine
My sexy fine valentine
Just come here be mine
Our love is one of a kind
A steel like tie that binds
Our intimacy knows no time
To not show and express this is a crime
My funny valentine
My sexy fine valentine
Just come here be mine
If I could simply turn back time
To strenght the love that binds us
Make sure the negative doesn't find us
Give you more and more of love would be a must
My funny valentine
My sexy fine valentine
Just come here be mine
Lets celebrate with this wiine
In each others essence we will dine
Another passionate moment in OUR time
You forever etched in my HEART and MIND
JUST COME HERE AND BE MINE
Happy Valentines Day Everyone
My Valentine
It is just another day
As always I miss you already
Each and everyday my love for you stays
This stubborn love unconditionally
My funny valentine
My sexy fine valentine
Just come here be mine
Nothing like you will I ever find
Lord knows that I have tried
Lessons learned time after time
Coming short each and every time
My funny valentine
My sexy fine valentine
Just come here be mine
Our love is one of a kind
A steel like tie that binds
Our intimacy knows no time
To not show and express this is a crime
My funny valentine
My sexy fine valentine
Just come here be mine
If I could simply turn back time
To strenght the love that binds us
Make sure the negative doesn't find us
Give you more and more of love would be a must
My funny valentine
My sexy fine valentine
Just come here be mine
Lets celebrate with this wiine
In each others essence we will dine
Another passionate moment in OUR time
You forever etched in my HEART and MIND
JUST COME HERE AND BE MINE
Monday, February 13, 2006
Who Do You See?
Just see me for me
The unique man you see
Giving you life experience interestingly
Seeing life breathtakingly
Able to be myself and free
Running through minds constantly
Accept me for me
See me for who I be
Funny, moody or just care free
Lovingly explicit or giving you that freaky mental and physical visit
It is hard to admit it
Hell to even keep up with it
It is just hard for people to understand and get with it
Seeing that I am a rare exhibit
Let me be me
Don't attempt to turn me
Making efforts to rebuild
I am already comfortable on my hill
My readjustments will come at will
I am not that bottomline quota that you have to fill
The unique man you see
Giving you life experience interestingly
Seeing life breathtakingly
Able to be myself and free
Running through minds constantly
Accept me for me
See me for who I be
Funny, moody or just care free
Lovingly explicit or giving you that freaky mental and physical visit
It is hard to admit it
Hell to even keep up with it
It is just hard for people to understand and get with it
Seeing that I am a rare exhibit
Let me be me
Don't attempt to turn me
Making efforts to rebuild
I am already comfortable on my hill
My readjustments will come at will
I am not that bottomline quota that you have to fill
Sunday, February 12, 2006
The Blues
When I think of you I see so many shades of blue
Indigo blue for the depression that I have from missing you
Aquamarine, reminding me of the eccletic earthy one that I am connected to
Azure leading me to look towards the sky, thoughts of us flying side by side
Midnight blue brings back the memory of late night walks on the beach with you
Royal Blue crept into the thoughts of being at court, Kind and Queen escorts
That Carolina Blue leading to thoughts of home and the country lifestyle that I love
Saphire the exotic gemstone reminding me of your charismatic presence
So many different shades of blues. Making me think of life and what we choose. Whether it is singing or experiencing the Blues, we have all come into knowing what it can do.
Indigo blue for the depression that I have from missing you
Aquamarine, reminding me of the eccletic earthy one that I am connected to
Azure leading me to look towards the sky, thoughts of us flying side by side
Midnight blue brings back the memory of late night walks on the beach with you
Royal Blue crept into the thoughts of being at court, Kind and Queen escorts
That Carolina Blue leading to thoughts of home and the country lifestyle that I love
Saphire the exotic gemstone reminding me of your charismatic presence
So many different shades of blues. Making me think of life and what we choose. Whether it is singing or experiencing the Blues, we have all come into knowing what it can do.
Saturday, February 11, 2006
That Missing Part of Life
I hold you within my heart and mind
The void that you filled laid bare
Life floats on by without much of a care
Pain and depression from you no longer being here
I am not ashamed to say I miss you being near
Heartfelt and lovingly I await for you to appear
Hoping to awake with you whispering love into my ear
To feel your breathe so near
Come lay here on top of me
Let me feel your heart beat
Memories of rubbing you to sleep
My arm around you as you snore nice and deep
Waking up for our morning treat
Our love making was completely unique
Passionate bedroom freaks
With nothing else there was no need to compete
I have cried
Held my side and swallowed my pride
Still in disbelief that you are no longer by my side
Prayers to God of why, why, why
So many tears have been cried
Baby, I just miss you being here by my side
The void that you filled laid bare
Life floats on by without much of a care
Pain and depression from you no longer being here
I am not ashamed to say I miss you being near
Heartfelt and lovingly I await for you to appear
Hoping to awake with you whispering love into my ear
To feel your breathe so near
Come lay here on top of me
Let me feel your heart beat
Memories of rubbing you to sleep
My arm around you as you snore nice and deep
Waking up for our morning treat
Our love making was completely unique
Passionate bedroom freaks
With nothing else there was no need to compete
I have cried
Held my side and swallowed my pride
Still in disbelief that you are no longer by my side
Prayers to God of why, why, why
So many tears have been cried
Baby, I just miss you being here by my side
Thursday, February 09, 2006
Future Shock
A sultry look
kisses permeating my very soul
thoughts of your full lips wrapped around me so lovingly
the presence of your body laying on top of mine as we slumber
thoughts of passion from the sight of your body walking across the room
memories of pleasure, fun, happiness, pain and anger.
yearning for your love, passion, tenderness, caring and companionship.
enjoying the adventures we experience
supporting and lifting you up
exhilerated by the future we can have together
thoughts of the beautiful children we can have.
kisses permeating my very soul
thoughts of your full lips wrapped around me so lovingly
the presence of your body laying on top of mine as we slumber
thoughts of passion from the sight of your body walking across the room
memories of pleasure, fun, happiness, pain and anger.
yearning for your love, passion, tenderness, caring and companionship.
enjoying the adventures we experience
supporting and lifting you up
exhilerated by the future we can have together
thoughts of the beautiful children we can have.
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